You’ll love these 20 ideas for Date Nights with your Kids…everything from picnics at the park to flying paper airplanes! Create memories for a lifetime, and enjoy quality one-on-one time with your children.
I’ve long had the opinion that having regular individual date nights with your kids is as important to their overall well-being as eating healthy meals and getting a good night’s sleep. As a stay-at-home and work-at-home mom, I’m home with my kids all day long, and we have a lot of fun together amidst all the errands, chores, and “busy” work of the day.
But that time during the day doesn’t often lend itself to one-on-one attention, especially when you’re worried about 25 pounds of flour being dumped out, sisters’ desks painted, or sharpies on furniture. (Not that those things have ever happened…)
I LOVE date nights with my kids, and it’s a much-loved tradition at our house.
I had one child for almost 8 years, and it was just the two of us everyday. And…we still had date nights. My husband and I traded off, and both of us loved that time with him, with no distractions. Now that we have six kids, we have to work harder to spend quality time with each of them individually, but we feel it’s important enough that we’ve made it a priority, and it goes on the calendar before other things. Life is busy, and sometimes it gets so crazy that date nights mean grocery shopping with mom…but it’s one of their favorites!
It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive…just a child and a parent, spending time together, really focusing on that child, and giving them all of your undivided attention. Asking questions, and really listening to their answer is one of the best things you can do for them, and for your relationship–whether they’re two years old, or sixteen years old. Date nights are perfect for this, and something we think is essential in our family.
We have a lot of fun on our dates, and I wanted to share our top 20 date ideas with you! My boys and girls like so many of the same things, that I put all of our favorites on one list. Most of my kids are little–five of them seven and under– but most of them are really great for older kids as well, or can be adapted as such.
Table of contents
- Grocery Shopping
- Visit the Fire Station
- Progressive Dinner
- See a Movie
- Visit a Museum
- Fold Paper Airplanes and Test Them
- Go to the Library
- A Trip to the Bookstore
- Picnic at the Park
- Seasonal Activity: Canoeing, Swimming, Tobogganing, Sledding, Cross Country Skiing, Cider Mill
- Board Games & Popcorn
- Go on an Adventure
- See a Play
- Perform service
- Date Night at Home!
- Make a Project Together
- Go to the Zoo
- Feed the Ducks
- Go to a Concert or the Ballet
- Attend a Sporting Event
- More ideas for you
I know it might sound funny, but it’s true–it’s one of their favorites! Our dates always include food, so we go to lunch or dinner first, then head to the store. They love being the one that I ask which kind of ice cream or cereal we should get, and crossing things off my list for me is a big deal.
Whether it’s speed bowling, trying to tickle each other while trying to bowl, or laughing about our shoes, this is a beloved date from the tiniest to biggest of kids!
Visit the Fire Station
My little 3 year old boys LOVE the fire station. It’s more of an obsession, really, so this is way up high on their list. Adding ice cream or hot chocolate is the icing on the cake!
Have you ever been on one of these? Going on one with one of your kids is incredibly fun. Start at one place for an appetizer, then on to the next restaurant for dinner, then finally somewhere for dessert.
See a Movie
I don’t love movies for date nights on a regular basis, because you can’t talk, but occasionally when there is a new movie that one of my kids is dying to see, we’ll go on opening night and make it a special occasion. Standing in line is great for conversation! Dinner or lunch first, and popcorn is always a must! One of my favorite date nights with one of my teens was a midnight showing of a much anticipated movie. We had the best time, and a memory that will last forever.
Visit a Museum
I love one-on-one museum visits, and so do my kids. They get to direct where we go, and which exhibit they want to stay at the longest. Many museums will offer free days—it’s worth a look. It could be a children’s museum, or another in your area that’s really interesting to your child.
Fold Paper Airplanes and Test Them
My little boys are constantly asking me to make paper airplanes, and could fly them for hours around out house and yard. What a fun date–to go somewhere, fold some planes (maybe look up different versions to try), and test them from different points and heights!
Go to the Library
We love the library! Usually I have all the kids with me, and I’m trying to read to all of the kids at the same time. Most of the time we have to stop a couple times to calm a baby, or wrangle a toddler, so a one-on-one date night at the library is a welcome one. My kids love this alone time, where we can sit and read together, browse through the aisles at our own pace, and get ice cream afterward!
A Trip to the Bookstore
Another family favorite! Just like the library, this is the perfect place to meander down the aisles, sit down with a pile of books, and even go home with a new one of your child’s choice!
Picnic at the Park
Make your child’s favorite lunch, pack a blanket, ball or Frisbee to toss, and you’ve got the perfect setup for a date! You could also take your favorite cereals, for a cereal night at the park, one of our family favorites.
Seasonal Activity: Canoeing, Swimming, Tobogganing, Sledding, Cross Country Skiing, Cider Mill
Take advantage of whatever weather you’re having, and enjoy a day outdoors! In the summer you can enjoy hiking, swimming, or canoeing…in the winter months try sledding, tobogganing, or even cross country skiing. We’ve taken kids from very small on up to do all of these things–you can totally start young! I’ve pulled little ones behind me on a sled while cross country skiing, which they’ve all loved.
Learning to love and appreciate nature and outdoor activities is SO fun. Be adventurous!!Do you live where there are apple farms (or other farms) or cider mills? During the fall season, this is a great way to spend an afternoon together!
Board Games & Popcorn
Gather up your favorite board games, pop some popcorn, and head to your favorite park for an afternoon of fun! (Here are some of our favorite board games…Best Family Board Games and Favorite Family Games for Ages 4-8)
Go on an Adventure
Adventures are big at our house. We pack a backpack full of “supplies” (snacks, water, and a treasure or two), then head out to walk the trails around our house. Along the way we pick up sticks, look for bugs and snakes, and collect leaves.
See a Play
Support your local high school, and attend one of their plays. We love the musicals especially, and it’s a great way to introduce your kids to the arts. The tickets are less expensive than larger venues, and it’s fun to see them perform.
Depending on what’s in your area, and your specific interests and talents, there are really great ways you can spend time with your child, and teach them about serving others. You can rake leaves in a senior citizen’s yard, volunteer at a soup kitchen, sing/play instruments at a local nursing home, or during the holiday season, do a mini Sub-for-Santa.
Date Night at Home!
Sometimes there isn’t anything better than snuggling in my bed, watching a favorite show, and eating takeout. From my littlest to my biggest, this is always a favorite!
Make a Project Together
A trip to Home Depot, Michaels, or JoAnn’s…then work together to make a fun project or craft. Woodworking, models, making bracelets, knitting or crocheting, painting…the sky is the limit. Whatever your child loves or wants to learn about is the perfect option. You could also visit a shop that offers paint nights, or project nights. Cookie decorating nights have been a favorite with my kids.
Go to the Zoo
Which animals do they like best? It’s a great time to find out! Again…look for free days or coupons.
Feed the Ducks
I am constantly saving our bread crusts heels for a date at the lake!
Go to a Concert or the Ballet
In our area we have Outdoor Concerts in the spring, summer, and even the fall, and they are so fun! I check for the ones my kids would enjoy, and then plan an evening out with them–a picnic dinner on a blanket, listening to music! One of my most beloved dates is during Christmas time, when I take my girls to see The Nutcracker. We all love it, and it’s become tradition. Learning to enjoy and appreciate different cultural events is something I want to teach my kids, and these are great ways to do it!
Attend a Sporting Event
Going to a local high school or college game is SO fun! Do you have a minor league baseball or hockey team in your area? Tickets are less expensive than professional games, so it’s more budget-friendly.
Some of them may work best for younger children, but I’ve found that even my teens will enjoy going to the zoo, feeding the ducks, or going to the library. Combine it with lunch or a trip to Starbucks, and you’ve got a really great afternoon.
Have a great date night! I’d love to hear about some of your favorites with your kids.